- Do you believe that there is ONE type of friend / buddy, who ONLY share their sad & grieve moment, those craps that busted them, the tears that bursted out, those angers that eats up, their tense that piled up their head - but not their happy moment, good things or great news?
Let me share these 2 stories....
1st Story
I have a friend who basically i used to call her my Best Buddy. We shared everything and even we've been friends since primary. Shared those crappy, those losers guys stories, basically everything. But then, end up when she got her Another-Half (which basically one of the errr~ that kinda guy that i mentioned before ~ngeeee~) but anyway, i knew thru Friendster and in fact from other schoolmates. I was devastated! Really. Because when i thought back, those moments, she always searched for me but then when become this lil'-tiny-itsy-bitsy story about she's in a relationship with someone that i know, is it so hard to give a tinkle 'anis, kite tgh bahagia dengan si dia'. i mean any mode will do~ sms, !YM, phone, telegram what ever aight? but i even asked her why she never tell me about the happy-together-moment, she said ' alaaa~ malu la, ye la~ bukannye ade ape pon~' errr~ excuse me?
2nd Story
Best Buddy a.k.a. Mr. Sunshine. yeah~ i know some of the REGULAR/SILENT readers already know the history of 'US' before. but, it is now an ancient. but recently he came back, with FRIENDS mode (that's what i hoping for! Alhamdulillah) and yeah~ basically shared his sad moment during his late dad was in hospital, his upside down with the family while his late dad was not really in a good shape. but truly, i've been there for him as a listener and as a friend because i understand he need somebody to let out his sadness and anger. and now, i just knew that he is also 'in a relationship' (lucky her! :D). seriously? truly? i am happy for him. but indeed, i was wondering why he never shared those happy moments, how he actually 'mengorat' her? :P or at least, ' u! i nak btau khabar gembira ni! thiihi'~
what do you think? i am not being moody or being over reacting or even being calculative ~ but i just thought that, buddies will share everything? or maybe, they just buddies? not friends? Friends will definitely share everything right? or maybe they think that, it's only that they just be 'in a relationship' right now, not yet getting married? too early to tell? or what? or it's just they simply don't want people to know their status? or they just don't want to announce too loud so that we won't think that they wanna show off or something? or wait till i ask? hurrrm~ *sigh*
c'mon! you know how i'm gonna react for this good news! i'll be most grateful person! :D
Sometimes, i felt so scared that my BFFs won't share their happy-together-moment. huhuuh~ but Alhamdulillah~ so far so good~ :P i heart you! :'*
frankly speaking, i am very happy for both Miss Best Buddy & Mr. Sunshine. But still, the big Q 'WHY' still hooked up in my mind.
To Miss Best Buddy : of course, i felt kinda turn-off when i knew the happy-news from others but I always pray the best for you dear. -xoxo-
To Mr. Sunshine : kinda hard to 'lepaking' together la after this :D but hey~ take good care of her aight! dun be noty-noty :P
~aNiSr~


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